Thursday, January 20, 2011

Our Good and not so Good Christmas Eve...

We had a fun Christmas Eve Morning and Afternoon this year. As usual, we ate lunch with the Sanders family. Later we went up to my Uncle's house for our Christmas Eve tradition. Ever since I was born I remember getting together with the Hales family and celebrating Christmas Eve. I always loved squishing our HUGE family into my Grandparents house. I loved getting together with my cousins (there are five of us my age alone) and eating Grandma's orange rolls and Grandpa's carmel corn. I miss that. Now that my grandparents are gone my sweet aunt and uncle let us invade their house and enjoy a night of stories, music and just visiting with one another.

After we left my uncle's house I wasn't feeling great about how Gracelyn was doing. Her ear began to drain and we couldn't wait to get antibiotics in her until after the holiday was over and doctors would be back in. I spent the day calling around to insta cares and no one would see her because of her condition. I couldn't get a hold of my doctor to get a simple prescription. Christmas Eve evening I ended up taking her to the ER. Not wanting to be away from Cole for two years in a row I went alone and left Jeff and him home to get things ready. Thinking we would be back soon. Wrong. Gracelyn wasn't satting well and the doctors didn't like it. She was congested and screaming, she wasn't going to sat well. As long as she is above 75% she is okay. The doctor disagreed with me. He told me they don't let babies (normal babies) leave that are sating at 76% (which was her low...while screaming.) He tested her for everything. Pneumonia, RSV, influenza...nothing. I knew she had an ear infection. He told me she needed to be admitted. I told him no. I knew she was okay and didn't want to take her up and expose her to something more. He insisted. He wanted to monitor her and give her breathing treatments if her sats went below 75%. Finally at 1:00 a.m. I gave in and told him I would be leaving Christmas morning by 7:00a.m. I sat all night watching my baby sleep soundly. I even saw her hit 91% O2. I couldn't help but cry. We didn't need to be there. We needed to be at home enjoying our first real Christmas as a family. 7:30 came and we were still there. Finally I told a sympathetic nurse to get a doctor to release us and he came. Feeling bad, the doctor that came to release could only smile and tell me the ER doctor wasn't educated in her situation. He wrote me a prescription for her ear infection and wished us a Merry Christmas. We were home by 9. So frustrating. Luckily we made it home and enjoyed Christmas with our families. A few days later we saw Dr. Rose. While at him office she was at 94% O2. I was amazed. I haven't seen that number since that day she was born. Dr. Rose was happy to know that she didn't have the breathing treatments. Come to find out it can make the heart "wack out". HHMMM...the could have been an enjoyable Christmas. Luckily she behaved and we were able to spend it at home. The nice nurses brought her in lots of presents. Of course she liked the boxes they came in more. She used them for hats...or should I say "hat

2 comments:

  1. You didn't tell me this whole story! I just knew you were home for Christmas, i didn't realize you spent ALL night up there!! I'm so sorry i talked you into going. Silly Dr. I guess it could have been worse and you could've got one that didn't take her seriously. That would've been just as frustrating :) Glad it all worked out and she is doing well!!

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  2. I have had Doctors both ways and they are equally frustrating! Im so sorry that you had such a rough night. Mothers intuition is the best. I would love to help if you ever do baskets again. It was such a cute idea. And so cool to do on her heart surgery anniversary. You truly know what it's like to be there during Christmas.

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